It’s the last day of January. My Facebook feed has been filled with memes about how long and horrible this month has been and how it’s like the 83rd day of January today. I don’t know about you, but when I see that shit it’s annoying. Because it’s an invitation to start complaining. Instead of lasering in […]
Lessons I've Learned
Divorce 101: What you REALLY need to know.
When I filed for divorce I was pretty clueless. And I was focused on all the wrong things. I wasted so much time and energy on stuff that didn’t matter at all. So I’m going to share what I wish I had done differently so you don’t waste as much time and energy as I […]
I Peopled Last Night
I got invited to a party for the first time in a LONG time last week. It was to go to a friend’s house for small Christmas party. I hadn’t seen my friend in a long time, and she was one of my divorce pioneers. We spent many hours talking about knowing what the right […]
The Real Me
A couple months ago we went to Family Weekend at my daughter’s school. We had a great time. After not being able to visit school at all the first two thirds of her freshman year, it was really nice to be able to go see her in her element, watch her swim, see her interact […]
It’s Not You, It’s Me
I spent the weekend at a swim meet on Long Island with my 10 and 12-year-old. It’s nice to be back at swim meets. It’s nice to see the kids having fun on deck with their friends. It’s nice to be able to sit in the stands and actually see your kids swim in person. […]
I Choose to see the Opportunities
The kids went to their father’s house today at noon. They are with him for the whole weekend. I had a Facebook live to do for E-School, and then I was going to just chill out for a little bit. It was a cold and rainy morning here in CT, so it was the perfect […]