A couple weeks ago after writing this post about how marriage is really fucking hard, a friend of mine wrote a comment about how men generally want to be respected first and loved second but women more want to feel loved and validated first, and then I wrote this post based on conversations with my […]
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Your husband just wants your respect. But are you giving it to him?
Last week a reader left a comment in response to the post I wrote about marriage being really fucking hard. It was a comment from a male reader, and in it he said: What I do know is this, wives want to be loved and they want their husband to validate their love for them […]
The 10 Qualities Women Really Look For In a Husband
The other day I was wasting time on Facebook and somehow I ended up reading an article entitled: 10 Qualities Your Future Husband Must Have. It was full of things like a strong moral code, and a good relationship with his family, being selfless, respecting your femininity and other stupid bullshit like that. Sure, I […]
And the rest, as they say, is history.
Back in my single days, I used to go out for happy hour on a fairly regular basis. Most Fridays I went to this place called Dry Dock with a bunch of other teachers. It was my Cheers. After a couple years, I got to know the regulars. I had become one of them myself. […]
I really need to make a deposit.
People say that raising children is the hardest job there is. I agree that it’s hard. Really hard. But I don’t think it’s the hardest job. I think being married is. You can say your husband (or wife) is your best friend, your soulmate, whatever… But when it comes down to it, you don’t feel […]