It all began with the decision to
To start taking charge of my life.
To start working out.
To start running.
To start getting healthy.
That decision to start led to the decision to do this:
That decision eventually led to this:
and this:
and this:
And the decision to do that,
led to the decision to do this:
I’ll be crossing that bridge in about 5 weeks.
The decision to do that led to the decision to start my own 5 K.
Yep.
I can now add Race Director to my resume.
People told me I wouldn’t be able to do it.
There wasn’t enough time.
Just bag it, and try next year.
Screw that.
I did it.
I directed my first 5K yesterday.
I still can’t believe it.
I’m still riding the high.
It was called The 5K for Christopher, in memory of my brother who died from leukemia in 1985, when he was 3.
I’ve always wanted to do something to honor him.
And I finally did it.
It wasn’t huge.
But it was a success.
It was a very emotional day for me.
I gave a speech before the race started.
You have to do that… to thank everyone who came to run.
To thank the sponsors of the race.
The volunteers.
I started bawling before I even got one word out.
I can relate a little bit more now to those Oscar winners who forget to thank their spouses.
I was in such a state of disaster, that I forgot what I wanted to say.
I forgot to thank Agway for sponsoring.
I forgot to thank Sonja and Diane for all their help.
I forgot to thank the people who came out to volunteer, especially the girls’ track coach, and a few of the girls from the track team, and my cousin and my friend Jen.
I forgot to thank my parents for their help and support.
And yes,
I forgot to thank my husband for putting up with all the craziness to get this thing going, and for taking care of the kids while I did it.
And I show you this picture to show you just how big of a disaster I was.
I cried myself into a cross-eyed mess.
But the race went off without a hitch.
And just as the start was emotional,
so was the finish.
While the race was a success financially and for me personally, it didn’t end there.
I got this message last night:
I wanted to share with you the awesome feeling that overcame me after the race today. I had a goal of 35 min based on my training times and fact I never exceeded 2.5 miles. I would have been happy with 35-37. When (my daughter) told me 32 immediately after I think I responded with that’s not right as if she made up the time. She walked me to the posting and I was elated. One would think I did a 22. So thank you for giving me this opportunity to feel so “awesome” and congratulations on pulling off this special event.
To be part of someone’s special moment like that is incredibly rewarding.
To be part of a 59-year-old’s and a 5-year-old’s first race doesn’t suck.
To be part of personal victories,
large and small,
feels great.
To have my family there watching,
supporting,
and volunteering,
was great.
To get this message from a friend,
It was so nice to be a part of the 1st annual 5K for Christopher. During the reception after the run I was cracking up because Number 6 picked up a Dunkin Donut, licked it and placed it back in the box hahaha – don’t worry, one of the adults took it back out…
to know that Number 6 was doing his part to entertain,
made me smile.
So many of us benefited in so many ways.
Aside from the birth of the kids and my wedding day,
I’d say yesterday was one of the best days of my entire life.
Maybe even the best one ever.
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Nancy P says
You are sooooo special!!!
Jenni and Jody says
Stopping by from Top Mommy Blogs and was inspired by your post. You go girl. Your story was a reminder that we only get one go around on this big rock, and we ought to invest rather than just spend the time. Thanks for sharing.
Sandra says
Congrats! I’m sitting here crying tears of happiness for you! I read your blog every day so I totally knew you could do this, I never doubted you for a moment, but then again, the only things I know about you are what you post in the blog. You are a rock star! Way to go! Keep up being a fabulous woman, wife, mom, friend, athlete and inspiration! I may only have one child (so far), but I have a hard time balancing my life. I might not always find time to work out, eat breakfast, brush my teeth, but I always find time to read your blog…. and now I find time to do a lot more! Thanks for sharing your life with strangers… you do motivate and encourage us readers to be better people too knowing that mistakes will happen, but own those mistakes and keep trying. Congrats again for yesterday!
Brenda says
Gotta say, I’m sure your brother is smiling down on you and proud of great his big sister is turning out- and I say that because you’ve got so much more to accomplish! And as with everything, how blessed you are to have such a support group! Parents that support you, kis that entertain you (good and ugh bad!) and a husband who sees your potential not from what you look like, but who you are… 🙂 Keep going!
Ashley says
I wanted to run the 5K so bad! I didn’t have a ride though 🙁
Melissa Flick says
You inspire me, Cousin. I love you!! Just so amazing and your post made me all eye watery. <3
Laura says
This is very inspirational! It’s what life is all about 🙂
Wrayann Estey says
Nicely done Susie!! So happy your first event was the HUGE success I think everyone already knew it would be. And nice boots Number 6 🙂
Allyson says
Thank you for organizing such a spirited event. We had a great time and loved the whole reason behind why we were there. Next year you’ll get triple the turnout!
Kara says
uhm you look so thin girllll
Wendy says
Wow, you are just so inspiring! Thank you